Sunan an Nasai
3943
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It was narrated that 'Aishah said:"The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives then he would say: 'O Allah, this is what I have done with regard to that over which I have control, so do not blame me for that over which You have control and I do not.'" Hammad bin Zaid narrated it in Mursal form

DaifAbu Ghuddah
DaifAl-Albani